First Three Minutes are the Most Important
It has been proven in research that the first three minutes of any confrontation between spouses dictates the rest of the encounter. Harsh start-up dooms a conversation to failure from the beginning.

Women and Fear
When it comes to marriage, women initiate the vast majority of marriage counseling. When something is wrong with their marriages, most women seek to fix it and are much more open to getting outside help. Having said all of that, there is one major fault that most women deal with as it relates to men and marriage.

Everything Matters in Marriage
Humans are tender creatures. All of us are. Even though many times we pretend things don't bother us--many of them really do.

A Very Important Communication Key
One time Karen and I were having a fight. I remember how frustrated I was. I kept trying to tell her how I felt and convince her that she was wrong. I wasn't making any progress which only made me more frustrated.

The Dreaded Teeter-Totter Syndrome
Imagine two people sitting face to face in the middle of a teeter-totter on a playground. Since they are in the very middle of the teeter-totter, they are close and their weight is balanced.

Don't Let the Sun Go Down On Your Anger
How do two people stand in front of a preacher with so much love and hope, and years later stand in front of a lawyer with so much hate and anger?

Q & A: Are the kids better off if we divorce?
Our society has made divorce an easy process. But is divorce the best option for the kids?

Q & A: How do you resolve conflict and get rid of anger?
Everyone gets angry. The difference is what you do with your anger. Learn how to control your anger righteously and grow closer to your spouse during the process.